Tuesday, December 4, 2007

The Sisters Bissinger











Just a quick post to show off the latest photos of Riley and Hannah tearing up the house! These two are getting along famously now and we had a nice weekend just putting up our Christmas decorations and watching the snow! (Hannah's first!) 21 more days until Santa comes! Start your engines...

Monday, November 26, 2007

Happy Thanksgiving!




















Hey everybody! Hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving! We saw lots of cousins, aunts and uncles at my Mom and Dad's on Turkey Day and Hannah skipped her nap which resulted in her passing out right at dinnertime. As you can see, Rob joined her. We all had a great time over the 4 day weekend and enjoyed lots of ice skating with Riley, Aunt Renee's bridal shower, Rob's 20 year high school reunion and just plain hanging out together as a family which was really nice after the hectic pace since we got back from China. The girls are getting along very well now and we're looking forward to a great Christmas season!! Enjoy the holidays!!

Saturday, November 10, 2007

Happy Halloween!!











What great fun we had this Halloween! The annual Cold Spring Halloween Parade went on despite a very rainy day. The sun came out just in time for the main event. Hannah dressed as the cow who jumped over the moon(Rob), Katie was the cat and the fiddle and Riley was a beautiful fairy. There was live music at the end of the parade and Hannah boogied. She is VERY into my "Dance with me baby" class and the moms in the class all remark on what a very happy baby she is and I tell them they've been duped because she is at her sunniest in that dance studio, which, of course, warms my heart every time. Despite a nasty bout with bronchiolitis last week, Hannah's been doing really well and some attempts at words like"doggie", "yogurt", "hot", and "choo choo" have been heard. Very exciting. She is cracking us up pretty regularly too. She has a fantastic sense of humor - she laughs every time I bump my head or slip which evidences it. Riley is making us proud by beating Rob at chess periodically(could he actually be letting her win?hmm..) and making the Destination Imagination Team at school! Smarty boots. Took the girls to the Children's Museum of Manhattan for a day and they had a blast. We're gearing up for a very big Veteran's Day weekend with Rob, Riley and I going to Rob's opening of Meet Me in St. Louis at Paper Mill Playhouse in NJ and the girls making a trip to the NY Hall of Science so Riley can see the "Cyberchase" exhibit. Should be exhausting but fun! Will try to post again after Turkey Day with new pix.

Saturday, October 27, 2007

God Bless Hannah En Ming!!




Well, we finally got our daughter baptized. Hannah's Christening was on October 14th and it turned out to be very entertaining as well as beautiful. Hannah enjoyed the water poured on her head so much that she practically dove into the baptismal font and thankfully, Reverend Leslie Mott has a firm grip so nothing sacred got destroyed. Godparents Aunt Debbie and Uncle Ron did a great job especially considering that they kept a toddler amused through an hour long service. Incredible! The Christening was followed by an amazing giant party at Grandma and Grandpa Ettinger's house complete with bouncy house and mountains of food. Thank you so much to all of our family and friends who were so very generous to Miss Hannah!! She is blessed in so many ways! What a fantastic day!

Sunday, October 7, 2007

Fall with the Family






Hey Everybody!! Just updating with the latest family photos. Hannah continues to delight and amaze us. She really is coming out of her shell in so many ways. Riley has also been a stellar big sister as we knew she would, helping us out and playing with her new mei mei a lot. Riley is back to her busy schedule of piano, chess, tap, gymnastics and soccer plus first grade, of course. I wish I were kidding but she truly enjoys every single thing so Hannah and I spend a lot of time in the car. We've also snuck in some apple and pumpkin picking on the weekends and we're already getting excited for the big Cold Spring Halloween parade. I'm loving my dance classes this year - I have a great bunch of kids! Rob is back to working on 3 shows at once - so business as usual for him. He goes to L.A. soon for 3 days and I'm gearing up for handling my 2 girls solo. It's a whole new ball game as Rob and I are rapidly finding out. Life is very crazy but wonderful and we will post lots of pix from Hannah's Baptism and Welcome Home party next week!! Hope everyone's enjoying my favorite season of the year.

Sunday, September 16, 2007

There's no place like home!!!!











Hi Everyone!! So sorry that we haven't posted in 10(!!)days but what a long, strange trip it's been! We are in fact home safe and sound and Hannah is doing well. The day after our last post was a terrible one. Hannah began running a fever on the boat cruise and we started her on some infant Tylenol that night. She had a good night's sleep and a decent breakfast but then suffered a febrile seizure during her nap (while lying in my arms). We had no idea what was happening and thus, were terrified. Luckily, we were still a few hours away from checking out of the White Swan and we were able to rush her to the clinic on the 3rd floor of the hotel. The doctors immediately gave her a shot to bring her fever down and mistakenly thought that she had tonsilitis and her tonsils had swelled, cutting off her airway resulting in the seizure. Since we've been home and seen our pediatrician, we now know that this is not the case. Her temperature spiked suddenly which results in a convulsion which causes no permanent damage..just shaves a few years off the life of the parents who witness it! The next 48 hours were pretty hateful because all we could do was worry - about Hannah, about having to shoot horrible tasting antibiotics down her throat(which she of course fought off like the incredibly strong girl she is on the bus to Hong Kong, the hotel in Hong Kong and the lovely 15 hour plane ride home) and about getting through the "laser temperature scanner" at the Hong Kong border with a feverish child. I wish I were kidding. Rob and I have never experienced this level of stress and hope we never have to again. God love the man who sat across the aisle from us on that flight to Newark because Hannah is impervious to Benadryl and must have thrown every toy we brought on the plane at or near him at various points. Everything was better when we made it through immigration(Yeah for new American citizen Hannah En Ming!!) and feasted our eyes on Riley Jane!! She broke Port Authority protocol and came running up the ramp yelling "Mommy!" and there were big hugs all around. We looked up to see my Mom and Dad, Godmother Debbie and Aunt Anna all in tears. What a welcome! Once back in Cold Spring, Riley surprised us with balloons, signs and cupcakes and we all had some dinner and collapsed. The rest of the week is a bit of a blur. Lots of jet lag moments for Rob, Hannah and I and a bit of regression on Hannah's part but who could blame the poor child? I felt like screaming in rage a lot of the time too and I hadn't just been kidnapped out of my country and made to live with 3 strange looking people who speak a foreign language. I'm totally amazed that she's dealing with all this as well as she is. That said, I have to admit my anxiety of waiting has now been replaced with the fatigue of being a new mom. I am wiped!! Happy, but wiped!! Kudos to all the mothers of two or more kids - I have newfound respect. What a crazy balancing act! It's great to sit at the breakfast table with all 4 chairs occupied at long last, though. We made it...we're home.

Thursday, September 6, 2007

Our last night in Guangzhou!





I'm posting mid-day because I think we'll be in kinda late after our big cruise tonight. Hannah was super crabby today, of course, because it was picture day. I really think that a new tooth must be breaking through her gums because she is drooling like crazy and the boogies are flowing! We received all of her final adoption paperwork today including the adoption certificate with our family picture on it and her official finding ad, history and immunization record. Everything is in order to go to the American consulate tomorrow and magically turn her into an American citizen! We are excited that we can start packing to return home. Rob did buy a new leather carryon bag which he plans to keep for future business trips. It's very nice and he clearly loves it - I love that he got it for 30% off an already low price! We will stuff it full of all the souvenirs for the trip home since Hannah is allowed a carryon too! It was wonderful to speak to Riley this morning and hear all about her first day at school! She said it was boring but she was excited to name all of her friends that are now in her class. I can't wait to walk her to school on Monday!! Hard to believe that in less than 48 hours, we will be in the air headed to Newark Airport!! I've never been so happy to be going to New Jersey! We're posting pictures of the travel group(sorry dads, somebody had to take the photos) and also the eagerly anticipated "Red Couch" picture which went surprisingly well thanks to Charmaine's genius idea of handing each baby a piece of cracker just before all the moms walked away. Hannah proceeded to feed everyone and only Claire cried. The girls names are (left to right) Jaiden, Lily, Isabella, Hannah, Kimberly and Claire. Hannah is the eldest at 19 months and there is some debate as to who's really the youngest - Isabella or Claire. Remember - these birthdays are assigned based on doctor guesses. They are all beautiful. Well, I will try to blog one more time before we get on the plane - probably from Hong Kong. Say a prayer we can fit everything into our luggage - we bought a lot more than we planned to. Bye Bye White Swan!

Wednesday, September 5, 2007

Lost in China






We finally got some relief from the intense humidity today and the timing was perfect because we planned to take the day off from the scheduled trip to the "mall" and walk around Guangzhou which is exactly what we did. I was proud of the fact that we just set out map in hand and found the intended destination - Hualin Temple. It turned out to be the birthplace of Chinese Zen Buddhism and was, in fact, very peaceful and beautiful despite its proximity to one of the busiest marketplaces for jade and spices in the city. We saw "the 500 ahtars" - all gold statues filling an enormous hall and buddhas that many Chinese were burning incense for and praying. Really interesting and the incense smelled wonderful. Hannah loves strolling so even after she woke from a short nap, we were able to explore other small labyrinthine paths in the city. We had a great time and will tell our tour guide none of it. He would probably be upset with us for venturing so far from the hotel without an escort. We did receive a lot of stares being the only white people around pushing a Chinese baby in a stroller but we'd better get used to that as I'm sure the same thing will happen to us in small town America. It was a thrill to explore the city's neighborhoods and I'm glad that we got a feel for "real China" as opposed to the tourist version that exists here on Shamian Island. Hannah continues to be a peach and hates going down for her nap, but she wouldn't be a Bissinger girl if she didn't. Right Riley? We're gearing up for a very big day tomorrow. We have a travel meeting (HOORAY!!), a group picture and the taking of the famed "red couch picture"(a tradition in the adoption community of taking a picture of all the babies in your travel group in traditional Chinese clothing on the red couch in the White Swan Hotel) , and finally, a cruise on the Pearl River with dinner included to celebrate the end of our trip! Very exciting. On our minds the most, though, is Riley's first day of 1st grade!!! We miss you so very much Riley and hope you have a fantastic first day!! We love you and will see you in only 3 more days!!!

Tuesday, September 4, 2007

Tuesday 's medical exam and some dubious English





She's a healthy, happy girl! No official word on the results of this morning's exam so I'm going to go with no news is good news. She had a pretty rudimentary check up including a squeaky frog to check her hearing. They of course did height, weight, head circumference and checked the ears, throat and lungs. That was about it. Hannah was crabby throughout but then, who really enjoys going to the doctor? She fared much better during the last of our souvenir shopping today (she really likes that stroller!). Rob got everyone's comments on the blog printed out in the business center of the hotel! So great to finally read everyone's reactions as we've been able to post on our blog but haven't been able to see it. Very strange but we hear it looks great! Thanks for all of your wonderful comments and wishes - we can't wait for you to meet this new baby of ours who is already so loved! The rest of the day we spent hanging out and playing in the room and at the pool. We finally ordered takeout from a place called Danny's Bagels and Hannah loved her first bagel as well as the bites she nabbed from my chicken parm sub! Pretty great bagels in China - who'da thought? We're posting a picture of an elementary school class that passed us on our way back from the medical exam. Interesting t-shirt for a school teacher, huh? The picture also gives you some idea of how close the traffic likes to get to the pedestrians (which in this case happen to be tiny children). Oddly enough, you hardly ever see people writhing in agony on the side of the road from hit and runs. Hannah continues to be in constant motion and is getting extremely vocal. I wonder if the babbling is in Chinese that I don't know but I am glad that she's making conversation at least. She let me hold her hand while walking for the first time today! Big deal for me because she finally trusts me enough to depend on me for something. We were at the pool and we spent a LONG time just walking to the water, dipping our feet in, then walking away, and repeat ad nauseum. Fine with me. She really LOVES the water too! Big fit when we had to leave. Well, we're off to dinner at Lucy's. Enjoy the pix!! 4 more days and we're home!!!

Monday, September 3, 2007

We begin our final week!





Happy Labor Day everybody! Today on the tour bus, Christmas carols were playing, so perhaps that was our guides' attempt to spread some American holiday cheer. I'll recap yesterday and today's events. Yesterday was fairly low key. Hannah continued to explore the hotel room and get into as much mischief as she could in our tiny space and Rob, God bless him, went to our guide De's room to do more paperwork. (It never ends!!!) All he can say is packing the White-out was the right call because I don't know if we've mentioned it, but our guides here in Guangzhou barely speak English and the translator is difficult to understand as well. Always fun when you're dealing with official paperwork in a communist country and you want to make sure you're getting it right. We also had to, without advance warning, scoop up Hannah, bring her across the street from the hotel and have her passport photos taken which should come out just great as I had zero time to clean her up and she had a boogie crusted nose and drool all over her onesie. Should be a lovely picture. I guess as long as it gets her to America, we'll go with the flow. Hannah took a much needed 3 hour nap and then we set out to order both our girls their "chops", which are personalized Chinese rubber stamps that come with ink and their Chinese zodiac animal carved on top. (Riley's a snake and Hannah's a rooster) The stamps have their names in both Western and Chinese characters - very cool. A nice man named "Michael" made them in 24 hours for us and did a great job. We ate out at a Thai restaurant last night called "Cow and Bridge" and loved it. Hannah especially enjoyed her chicken congee and iced coconut milk! Rob had the best Pa'tay of his life (and I quote). Today, we went to the Guangdong Folk Art Museum inside the Chen Clan Academy in Guangzhou. Great stuff!! It was built in the late 19th century (I don't think we're going to see anything truly ancient on this trip - next time, I guess) and it houses some really beautiful and extraordinary artwork. Rob and I were so happy to be able to see some art while we're here. After the museum, we went into the city for a bit of shopping and just picked up some baby books in English/Chinese, a CD of Guangdong style music which our guide really wanted us to get and some dipes and wipes. There's another big shopping excursion planned for Wednesday, but I think we're going to pass and rest up for the end of the week which will be jam packed with American consulate activities and celebratory river cruising!(I kid you not - we are heading out onto the Pearl River for a party on Thursday night!!!) We are posting a picture of the lobby of the White Swan Hotel to give you an idea of the swank accomodations. This place would be so relaxing if we weren't taking care of a baby! Practically everyone here is in the same boat as us, though, so it's a pretty strange scene at the breakfast buffet in the morning. Ripe material for a play, Rob thinks. Tomorrow, Hannah has her medical exam at the local hospital - let's hope she is as healthy as she seems. It's been such a blast getting to know her this past week. She is so much fun and very smart - she has already picked up the word "up"(hmm...wonder why...?) and calls me "Mama" and Rob "Rah" or "Bah" but we're working on the "Dada". She LOVES to play silly games and is extremely physical. We are soaking up the snuggly hugs and the way she just throws herself at us with a big smile on her face. I think we both expected to love her like crazy but never thought that she'd be loving us right back so soon. It's indescribable, the joy. We are so lucky to have her in our lives - she's amazing. And let's not forget that we have "double happiness" because of our amazing gal Riley who is due for a riddle. Here goes: When you say hello in Chinese, which part of your body does the first word sound like?

Saturday, September 1, 2007

Pictures from Saturday






Here are some pictures from Saturday's sightseeing trip and dinner at the Victory Hotel. It is a lovely Sunday here in China which we're spending mostly doing paperwork and laundry. More later....

Friday, August 31, 2007

A visit to Guangdong and a dip in the pool





Well, the visit to the orphanage was very emotional for us. Not only did we meet some of the nannies that took care of Hannah, but we also got a tour of the facility and saw her old crib and roommates. There were lots of babies there and also older girls about age 8-12 and it was very hard not to try to smuggle them all back onto the bus with us. It was a heart wrenching day. On the positive side, we did get 2 small toys that help Hannah to go to sleep at night and she got to say goodbye to her old home with us which should help to ease the transition a lot for her. The nannies described her as being active, of strong character(a polite way of saying that she's most likely as stubborn as our Irish lass at home, Riley) and is afraid of nothing! Sounds like we've got our hands full alright. The "honeymoon period" is ending and last night we got a 2 1/2 hour grieving and teething fest starting at 2AM. So, you want to parent a toddler, eh? Let the games begin! She's also losing her inhibitions and getting really comfortable around us which has resulted in our hotel room getting trashed. She really enjoys clearing things off which is nice if you're into minimalist upper surfaces and nothing but clutter on your floors. She is mischievous on a level we never had with Riley so this should be very interesting. It is entertaining for now but then again, we have maids at the hotel... In other news, we took Hannah for her first swim in the pool here at the White Swan. She was ambivalent about it but we were just glad that she didn't hate it as it gives us a respite from the crazy heat and humidity. She loved splashing Mommy, of course. I finally got to do a bit of shopping while Riley napped and I was thrilled to find a shop whose proceeds go to benefit Chinese orphans. I had a long conversation with the owner, a British woman who actively works to help older special needs kids that live in orphanages here in China. She blew me away particularly after my experience this morning at Hannah's orphanage. Inspirational. Needless to say, I will be doing pretty much all my souvenir shopping in her store. I found gorgeous traditional silk jackets for both Hannah and Riley to wear for the next Chinese New Year celebration and I have my eye on a beautiful Chinese silk christening dress there as well. She also carries lots of handmade gifts because she believes strongly in employing the local poor from the rural areas as opposed to just stocking factory made junk. Everything in the store is just beautiful. I was very impressed. Tomorrow we are doing some sightseeing in the countryside and checking out some Ming Dynasty temples. Should be cool. Enjoy the pix!

Thursday, August 30, 2007

Days 3 and 4 in Guang Zhou





So sorry that we didn't blog yesterday - the jet lag hit me hard around 5 PM and I couldn't do much of anything except take care of Hannah. I'm still not sleeping much - pretty much waking up at 3 AM every day and lying in bed until 6 waiting to start the day. I'm sure I'll adjust to the time change 2 days before we come home and I'll be in the same boat for another 2 weeks. Whatever....let's talk about the amazing Hannah En Ming!! She continues to surprise and delight us and we're proud to report that we can get her really giggling up a storm with our expert "tickle monster" skills. Thanks to all the kids back in Cold Spring who gave us a lot of practice over the past few years. Yesterday, we traveled to the Security Bureau of Guangdong Province to finalize our adoption. On the way, our guides discovered that the Bissinger family picture that they took on Tuesday did not make it onto our paperwork. Instead, the papers had a photo of a different couple who had adopted a little boy. We were a little nervous that this was going to delay everyone else but one of the guides literally got off our bus in the middle of traffic to go fix the problem. She did and met us at our destination no problem or Mei Wan Ti as they say here. We were a little early for our appointment so our other guide, De, took us to the supermarket in dowtown Guangzhou to buy formula and candy for the orphanage visit tomorrow. This was an experience. I have never in my life seen so many human beings crammed into one store all trying to shop as quickly as possible. A claustrophobic's nightmare. Imagine Shop-Rite on a Sunday afternoon and then quadruple the amount of people and turn the air conditioning off. Lovely. We got out with formula AND a little cool teething rattle (Go Rob!!) and then it was back on the bus. The traffic, by the way, is completely nuts in the city - no rules to speak of - everyone just drives when and where they feel like. Not for the faint-hearted. Did I mention no car seats for the babies? Yeah, we're now doing a lot of walking. Once we arrived, the scene at the Security Bureau honestly resembled a large DMV. Oficers were seated behind a long counter with digital signs over them and digital signs with numbers for who was next. The only weird difference was that everybody there was adopting a Chinese baby, so the room was packed with a very different demographic than your average American DMV. Bizarre. We were in and out of there in about 15 minutes thanks to our guide who is an older man who is obviously afforded a lot of respect as Rob and I were allowed to cut a LOT of people in line when all our papers were in order. This is clearly the kind of thing we've paid the agency for and I have to say when you're carrying a squirmy toddler in a sultry room, it's well worth the expense. So, with no fanfare at all, Guan En Ming officially becomes Hannah En Ming Bissinger and it's back on the bus! I gotta say - everyone should adopt a baby - it's a trip in more ways than one! We are settling into life at the White Swan and starting to establish a sleep schedule for Hannah. She's been sleeping great through the night (about 10 hours - wish I could do that!) but her naps have been kind of all over the place so we're trying to make sure she's in the room most days around noon to rest. We're so impressed with how good she is in terms of going with the flow. She actually loves going out for a stroll and now walks over to her stroller in the room and points to it a lot. I guess the 2 days of BabyBjorn didn't grab her. I'm ok with that in this heat, though. It's incredibly humid here, so you sweat profusely every time you leave the hotel. We had a very funny dinner last night - ordered scrambled eggs and white rice for Hannah and when the rice was put down in front of her, the reaction was as if someone flipped the "extrovert" personality switch. We were laughing so hard because not only did she finally let us feed her from a spoon(Yea!) but she started to "talk" to us nonstop and became very animated for the rest of the evening. The kid LOVES rice. Who knew? I know, I know, she's Chinese, duh, but we just hadn't gotten around to ordering it til then. Now we know. We finally Skyped Riley and Grandma and Grandpa succesfully with video and everything! It was so great to SEE Miss Riley Jane if only on Rob's laptop. Hannah cried the whole time because we had to wake her from a too late nap so they could all see her and she was not too cool with that idea. It was more than worth it - we can't wait to do it again tonight. Today we did a lot of walking around Shamian Island and also the lower part of Guangzhou. The island that our hotel is on became a British and French concession after they defeated the Chinese in the Opium Wars and so it's full of old decaying colonial buildings some of which are quite beautiful. Check out the pix we've posted. After crossing the footbridge and walking around Guangzhou, we're so grateful to be on this much quieter and manageable island with our new baby! You'll be able to see a real difference in the pictures. Hannah continues to fight off her head cold and I'm beginning to think the air conditioning in the hotel is aggravating it. Anytime we're outside in the heat and humidity, she's fine. We go back to the room and her little nose runs, she starts coughing and her breathing gets phlegmy. We have the thermostat in our room set at its warmest but I think it's the dryness that's getting to her. We've been giving her an extra bottle of formula to keep her hydrated because that's all she'll drink. I clocked her today and she downs that 8 ounce bottle of VERY warm formula in about 90 seconds!! She continues to eat well and she is just so adorable that we truly are having a good time but still cannot wait to be home. It's going to be a loooong 9 days. Tomorrow we go to Hannah's old digs - I will blog again once back from our journey to Dongguan Children's Welfare Institute.